Should Christians use sex toys? The question came to me from a reader who is unsure of how to feel about the use of sex toys between married couples. This is another topic often skirted past by women's ministry leaders, pastors, and bloggers but it is a valid and important question to explore. Much like self-pleasuring, using sex toys is a complex concept that isn't spelled out in the Bible. The Bible , although eternally truthful, was not written in the 21st century, but long before battery-operated anything was even a concept. But, sex toys, namely dildos, date further back than you might suspect. Dildos have been found in ancient civilizations such as Greece, Rome, and parts of China. They were used as medical aides, self-pleasuring tools and yes, for religious ceremonies. And, odd as it sounds, the fifth patented electrical home appliances was….
What is Unacceptable in the Marriage Bed?
Would you consider using sex toys in your marriage?
What is permissible sexually in marriage? What can a couple do sexually together? Can a married couple have anal sex? Are any of these things a sin? These are common questions I hear among young adults as they either consider marriage or are newly married. Let us be honest with each other, these are great questions. If as a married couple we desire to honor God in all we do — including the bedroom, then we need to ask these questions.
What does the Bible say regarding sex?
Is it okay to use marital aids such as dildos or vibrators with your spouse if both are in agreement? The Bible does not speak against it, but they also can be used for evil. We want to know boundaries and we also want to honor the Lord. The Bible does not say anything about married couples using sex toys such as dildos or vibrators. Yet, there are biblical principles that help us to understand that it is best to avoid them. There are two basic types of sex toys used today. They are dildos and vibrators. There are many different types sold. Consequently, there is great effort by the sex toy industry to suppress any suggestion that there are problems with dildos and vibrators. Married women use them more than single women.
Community answers are sorted based on votes. The higher the vote, the further up an answer is. A good answer provides new insight and perspective. Here are guidelines to help facilitate a meaningful learning experience for everyone. Follow Question. Is it spiritually right or wrong for married couple to use sex toys during sex? Answers 8 Discuss 2. Doreen Lovell Evangelist and Prayer Intercessor In mym opinion God created us and gave us all the rtools necessary to live a life of love and good sexual relationship in our marriage. Philippians " Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable-if anything is excellent or praise worthy- think about such things" Whatever we allow in our relationship as Christians even in marriage should conform with these guidelines of the scripture. We must continually ask the question, Is it true, noble, right, pure, lovely in God's sight, admirable, excellent or praiseworthy?